Many young men ekasi and in the city do not transition from boys to men because there are no real manhood transition rituals.The only rituals available for them is
– Starting of alcohol consumption or drugs
– Playing sports, getting a job or qualification
– Start having sex or impregnating
– Crime, gangs and prison.
– Being violent towards males and females
– Materialism in clothing and cars
There are many boys in men’s bodies (irresponsible) and feminine brains (hyper-sexual) That’s why you find a 35 year who is a boy mentally even if he has children. Gangs understand the importance of rituals that’s why they are committed to the tradition. It’s alluring to young men because we naturally feel this deep need to transition.
