1. Chasing Women

Women’s lifeline is attention. They’ve always had a shitload of attention, all their whole lives, especially the beautiful ones. The more attention you give, the less interested she becomes. Be indifferent and unavailable. Channel your energy into your purpose and your goals. Women will gravitate to you. As the years go by and the beauty does not serve her as well as it served her when she was younger, you will suddenly get the ‘hey you stranger’. While she doesn’t necessarily want to be in a relationship with you, she knows you are one person to hype her up when it’s obviously not many quality men are giving her attention. 

2. Unhealthy Lifestyle

When I was younger I used to believe that people that go to the gym are people ‘born to go to the gym’. I believed they had a special inclination genetically or mentally. Only to find out that the gym is actually a must for a man. Our lives are not like our forefathers who spent much of their time outside working, walking long distances and fasting. They used a lot of energy in a day. We hardly use energy with easy access to food, working while sitting the whole day. Your health deteriorates as you age. Muscles weaken, man boobs and umkhaba develop, and hormones drop. Regular training and clean eating are a must for a man their entire life. As you age you will stand out if maintain a healthy lifestyle. 

3. Wasting Time

As you age, time seems to speed up. Most adult men live with regret. Afraid to take a chance, they choose to do nothing. “I wish I stayed disciplined and persistent.” When you’re 70, make sure you have no regrets. That thing you keep thinking of doing, do it, rather learn from your mistakes that fail without even trying. 

4. Addiction
Porn. Drugs. Alcohol. You’re only destroying yourself through addiction to vices. A man with no vices or dependencies is a man to be feared by the masses. A truly dangerous man.
5. Poor Financial Literacy
Money is not evil. It is a gateway to freedom. Understand what money is. Understand how money works. Read and study money.
6. Lazy brain – no desire to learn Life is continual learning.
Read books. Watch productive YouTube videos. Listen to podcasts. All consumption of information must be beneficial to your psyche. Stop watching the news.

About Rewo Banele

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Before we can educate the youth about business, we need to confront the challenges that are constantly destroying the youth before they even begin looking towards trying entrepreneurship. I was once a young man who needed someone to show me the potential I possessed as a young man growing up in the township. Today I am an Entrepreneur, Author and Executive Producer with a passion to educate young people in the township about their potential and challenges through entrepreneurial and substance abuse content. This is why I have dedicated part of this website to address issues of substance abuse and crime. Only after addressing these can we have hope to inspire young people into entrepreneurship.

4 thoughts on “6 Big Mistakes You Should Stop Making As A Man

  1. Love this ,I’m your desciple my man I learn and benefit a lot from your teachings bra B thank you so much 👊❤️

  2. I started watching your videos few months back and I am proud to say I have built a character I desired. thank you Grootman❤️

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